| Country | United States |
| State | Maryland |
| City | Bethesda |
| Address | 7540 ROYAL DOMINION DR |
| Phone | 301-469-6640 |
| Website | www.qpid.com |
Before I joined a month ago, I read several stories about the Qpid site. But all dating agencies have many negative stories, and this one had some goodies too (which I now think are management placed) that allayed my concerns.
ALL guys can be vulnerable, I was, if there's been a romantic upset. This site plays on that..
The women are invariable lovely, exceptional, but I NOW see that many of the photo's are airbrushed or in some cases, look closely and you will see not all photos of the 'same' woman are in fact the same.
Yesterday, after repeated affirmations form one woman, I did 'call' for a chat. I was on for 12 minutes, she asked me to look at 3 photo's and that cost me 6 credits all up - A$72 without the bat of an her invisible eyelids. One of the photo's she sent gave her away - the woman was clearly someone very different from those on the website, the other 2 were on the site already and therefore unnecessary to send at all - but you don't know that until you open them!
Many other reports on this site about Qpid are very true, I speak of this month, November 2016!I
I got over 150 'admirer' mails from women in the first 3 weeks from their 4 outfits. I made a short list of 5 girls in my desired category. This was out of just the admirer mail. I have spent towards $800, have had 4 of the shortlist want to marry me within the first 10 days - but, none were prepared to meet next month outside of China (despite their being so much in love) on the grounds, they don't think they could manage the language either enroute, or when with me.
Not one had the nouse to use my external email ( hidden in the profile for anyone with the sense to see it) and yes the censor is at work in every attempted contact usually without us realising it. Here is a list of some of the things to watch out for:
*DO NOT give a standing order for deductions - ever.
*Don't fall for the discounts for bulk credit buys - they are not refundable
*On phone calls or chat, you are never sure it is that same girl
*Carefully check all the photo's - often one face is put on more than one photo, all same smile, whitened skin etc.
*Some persona's use another personas' photo's - look for the same clothing on pics of one girl, compare to another, then look carefully at the face...I have found one 39 y/old playing the role of another of 52 - all different cities, date of birth, but the same girls face at least, maybe even the lie of the body.
*Look at the ID numbers 200000 odd is 3+ years of membership, 500000 about 2 years, 900000 more recent - I asked 'why such a lovely lady and on line for 3 years?' ... you should too
*The great majority press the sex envelope in pics and often in profile - be it the latin, Ukraine, asia or China sites.
*Many have jobs, claim to own houses, have enough money - all seem to be online though nearly every day - if a job, it seems could be Qpid telegirls, if not, why on line at all hours of their night-time?
*They send EMF letters or 2nd photo's to get the men to 'open' them, thereby using a $7 credit for each, and eliciting a $7 reply - easy money.
*The EMF mail system is often slow - 71 hours, 65 hours at times - which can cause enough concern for the guy to send another mail.
*Q's are often not answered, replies often use poetry - nice but not relevant.
*Learning" English is a laugh in the profile - a euphemism for bare minimum
*Some said what a lovely photo of me (on the profile) be4 I put a photo on the profile!!!
*Why would a 20's year old want such an old guy - older than her father? Yet Qpid still sends them to us
*This week I went thru the mechanism to receive a phone call - nominated a time/day range, waited - no call
*It will cost about $300 to have an on-site meeting arranged by Qpid with the woman (if they keep appointment)
*You cannot have such a meeting without first exchanging 10 EMF's each (20x$7)
there are more things I could say, but the above are all accurate. The upshot is: "the site is akin to a meat market! This good piece, sweet and tender or that piece, put your money down and we will wrap it up (very nicely) for you! Once you have eaten of it, come back for more! " The pics warm a man's heart and are alluring, for sure., then again, the butcher always show you the best cuts.
The girls could well be available and wanting a genuine mate of course, but the middle man Qpid got me good and proper.
I will still wonder if they could have been my love-woman for life. I will miss the ones I fell for. But, I can go no further: I am sure all men could spend $800 in one month or even half of that, in a much better way.
All these sites are fraudulent and border on human trafficking. Here’s how it works. The women are offered photos and access to the Qpid Network of men in other countries, if in return they generate revenue by sending out, with interpreter assistance if necessary, emails at $6 per depending on credit price), online chats (same price more or less) and especially expensive phone calls ($6 per minute more or less). Prove it to yourself like I did. Remove your photos and profile, put something derogatory in the profile, like I did saying the service is illegitimate and you are asking for a refund and more. You will still receive EMF emails from dozens of women who could not possibly know anything about you or have any interest in you!! Join me in asking the Federal Trade Commission to block this criminal enterprise from transacting business in the United States!
I was completely scammed over a five month period approx May 2nd to Oct 2nd. Corresponded via agency email (cost $7/email both ways plus gifts from her never requested that cost me the same each time one was sent). I spent over $600 in emails ($50/wk average) and went to Beijing in early July to meet her. She never showed up to meet me, had an implausible excuse (family medical emergency). She emailed the next day apologizing for missing me at airport. I provided my hotel name, phone, she never called. I came home one week later without ever meeting her. We (fake her) continued emailing for another 3 months during which time she said she would come visit me, had procured her passport, gone to US Embassy interview. At that point (over 90 days in process) I qualified for receiving her personal (fake) email. There was no response from her (fake email address) from that point forward. Complained to 'customer service', accused (independent contracted) agency in Beijing of scam operation. They said they would look into it and I have not heard from them since. Cost: $3500-$4000 including trip to Beijing, emails, 'gifts' sent by fake email translator, fees to get her personal (fake) email address ($70).
I just recieved a siimlar email saying $437.65 was deducted from mychecking account. i have a pay pal account but have only used it once in the 3 years ive had it. the wierd thing was it went straight to my junk mail and any official email about past internet purchases went into my regular inbox. its a good thing my husband is a ebay/paypal pro other wise i would have totally been scammed. the pay pal.inc.com and the paypal.com websites are alot alike. kinda scarry
I HAD BEEN CORRESPONDING FOR THE LAST TEN MONTHS WITH ONE WOMEN IN CHINA.SHE WAS SENDING ME SEVEN OR EIGHT LETTERS A DAY WHICH I HAD REPEADLY ASKED HER TO ONLY SEND ME ONE AND HER ANSWER TO ME WAS DONT YOU LOVE ME.THIS WENT ON UNTIL SHE SAID SHE WAS WAITING FOR HER VISA AND WOULD SEE ME SOON.I FINALLY GOT FED UP AND DICONTINUED CORRESPONDING WITH HER.
NOW THE SECOND LADY I HAVE BEEN CORRESPONDING WITH IS SIXTY ONE YEARS OLD AND WE WERE TOTALLY ATTRACTED TO ONE ANOTHER AND FOR SOME REASON LAYING IN BED IT KEPT GOING THROUGH MY MIND ABOUT THIS SITE WHAT PEOPLE WERE TELLING ME THAT THE SITE IS A SCAM.SO THIS MORNING I THOUGHT I WOULD GO ON MY COMPUTER AND TYPE IN Qpid Network and I asked if this dateing site was a scam and found out that it certainly was which was very upsetting but at the same time I am glad I found out now as I lost about ten thousand dollars to this site being desieved.
I won't get into many details but this website and it affiliates are a total rip off. Do not believe anything you read on the profiles or the pictures. The ladies are models from agencies that get paid commissions to respond to you, Worst yet they censor your emails and will simply remove anything that they deem fit. DO NOT register, DO NOT pay them any money (i.e. they charge roughly $6 per text or email). Go ahead have a look and then after you have seen the pictures of the ladies (all at least a 9 out of 10) ask yourself, is this too good to be true and then answer with yes it is, wayyyyy to good to be true. Buyer beware, this is a website run my marxists and communists that want nothing more than your hard earned money for phoney women and robotic responses.
Clearly this company hires fake woman to pretend they are the woman in the profiles--it is easy to figure out after awhile by asking questions they cannot answer. Like please send me some pics with you and friends or family or at your job etc. Most will say i will do but never do or my camera is broken or i do not have one etc etc.
Tell them you are coming to meet them etc etc and see what happens--they willt ell you they love you but when you say coming and need info to meet them etc excuses or say they are bsuy etc. Ask where they work, family names etc etc--copy an dpaste all conversations and then later ask them questions again--you will see often the story changes. Then if they say they will come to meet you watch the excuses rise as the time for them to fly to meet happens
I also asked Idates Asia why do i pay the same for Phillipines woman when they can speak english and do not need translation which is what Qpid says is what you are paying for--watch their lame reasoning
I went to Phillipines to meet several woman last year--all but one never showed up--.
PHILLIPINES AGENCY CAUGHT AND NOW IN JAIL AND SHUT DOWN
I became friends of the manager of this particular agency and we kept in touch. She has quit because she could not take the decieving of men anymore. She says yes all the woman in profiles are real but they hire woman to pretend they are these woman and just lead you o and on to spend as much money as they can out of you. Some woman you do actually talk to but you have to ask the right questions right away to figure this out.
So the police found out through some foreign men coming to them and the owner was arrested anf thrown in jail and awaiting court as i write this. All the former employees have told them of the scam and that the orders to do this come from the QPID Network head office in Hong Kong
This is a good time to now make this a huge issue and get these bastards shut down as the poor woman that actually want to meet someone are also losers.
My friend was asked to open her own agency and they said if she did she had to do this scam--this was from QPID management in head office
I have called Visa to get them to do a fraud investigation and remove their name from this website which is really how to hurt them but VISA tells me they do not consider this fraud as i willingly agreed and paid but is that not what Fraud is--someone tricking you out of your money---clearly VISA is aware of the issue but again profits before what is right for their clients so VISA na d Master Card are just as bad as QPID--wish someone would do an expose on both Visa and Qpid
thanks
My experiences during ~2,5 years ,dealing with Idate Asia ,Charmingdate are somewhat similar.In a second letter to me I was asked to send some nice gift.A first catch letter sounds pretty nice...just to rubbed you for a $7 letter. No one have any control who is translating ,if the lady received the letter at all. In this beautiful country of Ukraine,today sadly it is quite chaos. The lady's who manage to have this wonderful pictures taken in rich looking palaces,never will leave this network because this is their main stream of income. 4 or 5 o'clock am those designers,lawyers,doctors,teachers are chatting vigorously ,day after day,changing shifts. Most of them have have the "unlimitted" age preferences 18 -70?? !! 18 years old designer,seamstress,Collage person,as soon as the system catch my $7 for my letter,never hared from her. Her qupid letter (which was free) came as paid answer !!! Most disgusting experience I had with Vietnamese 2 beautiful ladies. After corresponding with each one for~ 3months and exchanging letters ( 10 letters) I wanted to go see them but first to have a private conversations with them. In their profile it was said that they are advanced in English...but after I've spend $~400 each...their English was not good enough!!! I believe ,quite few honest Westerners would like to offer life improving situation for some but corrupt individuals tangled this entire system very nicely. It is a crime. To deceive,lie,steel the money is bad enough...but to keep hurting those involved should be stopped immediately. To keep using a human emotions in such a disgusting ordeal and style is absolutely not acceptable.
Under Qupid wings
My experiences during ~2,5 years ,dealing with Idate Asia ,Charmingdate are somewhat similar.In a second letter to me I was asked to send some nice gift.A first catch letter sounds pretty nice...just to rubbed you for a $7 letter. No one have any control who is translating ,if the lady received the letter at all. In this beautiful country of Ukraine,today sadly it is quite chaos. The lady's who manage to have this wonderful pictures taken in rich looking palaces,never will leave this network because this is their main stream of income. 4 or 5 o'clock am those designers,lawyers,doctors,teachers are chatting vigorously ,day after day,changing shifts. Most of them have have the "unlimitted" age preferences 18 -70?? !! 18 years old designer,seamstress,Collage person,as soon as the system catch my $7 for my letter,never hared from her. Her qupid letter (which was free) came as paid answer !!! Most disgusting experience I had with Vietnamese 2 beautiful ladies. After corresponding with each one for~ 3months and exchanging letters ( 10 letters) I wanted to go see them but first to have a private conversations with them. In their profile it was said that they are advanced in English...but after I've spend $~400 each...their English was not good enough!!! I believe ,quite few honest Westerners would like to offer life improving situation for some but corrupt individuals tangled this entire system very nicely. It is a crime. To deceive,lie,steel the money is bad enough...but to keep hurting those involved should be stopped immediately. To keep using a human emotions in such a disgusting ordeal and style is absolutely not acceptable.