I am sharing this because if this guy is this volatile and childish in his personal life, I would assume it translates into his work as well.
I met Allan Martinez at an industry party back in December where the first words he spoke to me were "You're beautiful, is that your boyfriend?"
Like any girl, I was taken aback at his forwardness and put on the defense. Regardless when we finally got to talking about what we were there for, the industry, he gave me his card and I checked out his website where I saw a film he was doing that I found interesting, so I emailed him, along with everyone else I met that night to let them know it was nice meeting him and praise him for the film on his website. He ended up calling me and said that he would like to meet up after the holidays. One thing that he did say that I refer to in the below conversation is "I am not interested in talking to you on a business level" and basically tried to imply that he was only interested in a sexual relationship which really bugged me and is a huge factor in why I chose to not follow up. Anyway he didn't contact me again until yesterday when he texts me accusing me of not liking him because I never followed up and I make it clear I am only interested in meeting up as friends to which he agrees. He asks if I am free that night and I tell him no because I am taking a class to which he asks me for the details and we decide on Saturday instead. And here is the rest of the conversation. I have edited out the name of the class.
+1-310-866-3049 Ok
Let's do like 1 or 2. Feb 8, 2012 3:45:57 PM
Me 2pm works Feb 8, 2012 3:54:52 PM
+1-310-866-3049 2pm on sat it is!
The link you passed doesn't work. (I see THE CLASS FB but it's in LA.) You got their number instead? Feb 9, 2012 9:04:57 AM
Me Um yeah its in la. I live in la. Where are you located? Feb 9, 2012 9:50:25 AM (I assume he must be in NY right now or something and is confusing me with someone else)
+1-310-866-3049 I was looking at wrong link. It's all clear now!
What are you doing on Tuesday happy hour time? Feb 9, 2012 10:07:25 AM
(While a minute ago he said Saturday works for him, as soon as he realizes I live in Los Angeles he wants to change plans.)
Me So sat is no good? Feb 9, 2012 10:11:49 AM
+1-310-866-3049 Yes. Sat is now problematic! :(
Sorry!
Btw- do u remember who this is now? Feb 9, 2012 10:13:01 AM
Me Um yes but you clearly don't if you don't even know what state I live in Feb 9, 2012 10:14:06 AM
+1-310-866-3049 ??you lost me
Your not in LA? Lol Feb 9, 2012 10:15:15 AM
Me Yes
I am in la. And yougot confused that I am taking a class in la. Which means you thought I didn't live in la. Look one thing I
can't stand is lies. Who did you think I was? Feb 9, 2012 10:16:41 AM
+1-310-866-3049 Huh??? Calm down!
Your not a victim!
There is a THE CLASS in Arizona... That's all. Figured I had the wrong site. OMG!! Feb 9, 2012 10:19:34 AM
Me "2pm on sat it is!
The link you passed doesn't work. (I see THE CLASS on FB but it's in LA.) You got their number instead?" Feb 9, 2012 10:20:13 AM
Me Funny how 2pm is suddenly problematic when you realize I am in la. And I am calm. You clearly have the wrong idea about me. Hope you find the person you actually meant to text Feb 9, 2012 10:21:24 AM
(To which he proceeds to call me while I am in mid text and leaves an angry voicemail where he calls me immature and tells me to call if I am "grown up." His tone is so threatening that I just deleted it midway, although I guess I should have saved it)
+1-310-866-3049 Listen to my voicemail
And grow up Feb 9, 2012 10:23:10 AM
Me "2pm on sat it is!
The link you passed doesn't work. (I see THE CLASS on FB but it's in LA.) You got their number instead?" Feb 9, 2012 10:24:34 AM
Me Reread the text you wrote Feb 9, 2012 10:27:48 AM
+1-310-866-3049 You need some therapy?
You went through some trauma?
Really sorry you have issues being cancelled on.
Your behavior is psycho! Feb 9, 2012 10:28:17 AM
Me Again this is the text you wrote. Please read it " 2pm on sat it is!
The link you passed doesn't work. (I see THE CLASS on FB but it's in LA.) You got their number instead? " then you say that sat no longer works when 10 min prior you said see you sat. also I realize you seem to have a thing for belittling people and for some reason you think I enjoy that. The reality is that I don't and the volitile one is you and you are projecting onto me. I am not an angry person and I do not hang around people who think I have trauma or
tell me I need therapy or call me a psycho. If you truly think that is how you gain a person's respect you are the one who needs to go into therapy. All you are doing by lashing out at me is making me thank god that I never hung out with you. My friends may not be perfect but they don't go around calling people psycho, and if they did, and I still hung out with them, then id be subjecting myself to abuse, and regardless of the idea you clearly have made up of me, I am not the
type of person that tolerates that. Feb 9, 2012 10:33:41 AM
+1-310-866-3049 You won't call me.
And choose to hide behind texts like a coward.
Call me or delete me.
But stop texting. Thanks Feb 9, 2012 10:35:56 AM
Me I don't call you because idont feel like being yelled at and wrongly accused of stuff. Your voicemail was incredibly angry and abusive and no sane person would call a stranger who is treating them like that. It is clear you just want to argue and I don't need that kind of negativity. I suggest if you are angry at the "immaturity" in the world you set the example. Be the change you want to be. Treat others as you would like to be treated. Afterall you are way too old to
be calling people names. Notice how I don't resort to name calling yet I am at least a decade younger than you. Feb 9, 2012 10:38:49 AM
+1-310-866-3049 But You act like 2 decades younger than me. Lol Speaking of liars. Your first text this time around said:"you didn't know who this was" but you Absolutely did. Why did you lie?? Maybe u should look in the mirror? Feb 9, 2012 10:40:31 AM
Me I didn't and I figured it out right away when I looked in the text history. its impossible that I am acting two decades younger when you are acting like a 13 year old. You want to prove that you are not a liar? How about explaining why sat didn't work anymore when you realized I was in la. Or how about explaining why you texted me " 2pm on sat it is!
The link you passed doesn't work. (I see THE CLASS on FB but it's in LA.) You got their number instead? " Feb 9, 2012 10:41:52 AM
+1-310-866-3049 "A sane person wouldn't call me?" Lol
Yet sending me a million texts when i asked you to stop is more sane??
Wow! Stop! You are psycho! Feb 9, 2012 10:43:24 AM
Me Wow if you are this volatile in your personal life I can't imagine how you are on set Feb 9, 2012 10:44:12 AM
+1-310-866-3049 I'm calm dear. And busy working.
Your texts are hostile. And you may have obsessive-compulsive disorder. Look into it Feb 9, 2012 10:46:11 AM
Me Saying something doesn't make it true. And if you were busy working you wouldn't have time to talk on the phone. Texting would be more convenient. Look I have been kind enough to answer all your questions yet you refuse to answer mine. Feb 9, 2012 10:47:40 AM
+1-310-866-3049 Stop assuming!
Taking would have been faster than all these texts.
You don't run my life So stop trying to control things and making demands. Ok? It's obnoxious.
Call me if you have the courage... Feb 9, 2012 10:50:19 AM
Me I'm 25 and a technophile. Texting is faster for me and I don't respond well to teasing and threats. I have not made a single demand. You are the one demanding me to call you. Feb 9, 2012 10:51:15 AM
+1-310-866-3049 I requested you call.
Not demanded.
Your view on the world is warped. Feb 9, 2012 10:53:24 AM
Me And I asked what the story behind the canceling and being confused about my location was. And going as far as saying "call if you dare" is incredibly immature and not something that works on me. Not sure what type of daddy issue girls you are accustomed to Feb 9, 2012 10:54:42 AM
+1-310-866-3049 You didn't answer my call. But You could have.
You want to keep things in conflict.
I don't That's why we don't get along. Bye Feb 9, 2012 10:56:15 AM
Me My reception is horrible even if I had answered it would have cut out in a minute. You'd think someone who claims to remember who I am would remember thatb Feb 9, 2012 10:57:00 AM
+1-310-866-3049 U got a google number
What is it? Feb 9, 2012 10:57:52 AM
Me Seriously?
From the person who scolded me for not having saved his number. Look
just leave me alone. My curiosity and wanting to find out who you
thought yuou were talking to let this drag on for way too long but its
clear you're not gonna tell me so just give it up. Bye. Feb 9, 2012 10:59:17 AM
+1-310-866-3049 You call that Curiosity?? Lol no way. You love conflict
And drama.
Bye bye Feb 9, 2012 11:03:29 AM
Me Yes wanting an explanation as to why you thought I wasn't taking a class in la is curiosity. Any normal person would be confused by that tex.
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I am sharing this because if this guy is this volatile and childish in his personal life, I would assume it translates into his work as well.
I met Allan Martinez at an industry party back in December where the first words he spoke to me were "You're beautiful, is that your boyfriend?"
Like any girl, I was taken aback at his forwardness and put on the defense. Regardless when we finally got to talking about what we were there for, the industry, he gave me his card and I checked out his website where I saw a film he was doing that I found interesting, so I emailed him, along with everyone else I met that night to let them know it was nice meeting him and praise him for the film on his website. He ended up calling me and said that he would like to meet up after the holidays. One thing that he did say that I refer to in the below conversation is "I am not interested in talking to you on a business level" and basically tried to imply that he was only interested in a sexual relationship which really bugged me and is a huge factor in why I chose to not follow up. Anyway he didn't contact me again until yesterday when he texts me accusing me of not liking him because I never followed up and I make it clear I am only interested in meeting up as friends to which he agrees. He asks if I am free that night and I tell him no because I am taking a class to which he asks me for the details and we decide on Saturday instead. And here is the rest of the conversation. I have edited out the name of the class.
+1-310-866-3049 Ok
Let's do like 1 or 2. Feb 8, 2012 3:45:57 PM
Me 2pm works Feb 8, 2012 3:54:52 PM
+1-310-866-3049 2pm on sat it is!
The link you passed doesn't work. (I see THE CLASS FB but it's in LA.) You got their number instead? Feb 9, 2012 9:04:57 AM
Me Um yeah its in la. I live in la. Where are you located? Feb 9, 2012 9:50:25 AM (I assume he must be in NY right now or something and is confusing me with someone else)
+1-310-866-3049 I was looking at wrong link. It's all clear now!
What are you doing on Tuesday happy hour time? Feb 9, 2012 10:07:25 AM
(While a minute ago he said Saturday works for him, as soon as he realizes I live in Los Angeles he wants to change plans.)
Me So sat is no good? Feb 9, 2012 10:11:49 AM
+1-310-866-3049 Yes. Sat is now problematic! :(
Sorry!
Btw- do u remember who this is now? Feb 9, 2012 10:13:01 AM
Me Um yes but you clearly don't if you don't even know what state I live in Feb 9, 2012 10:14:06 AM
+1-310-866-3049 ??you lost me
Your not in LA? Lol Feb 9, 2012 10:15:15 AM
Me Yes
I am in la. And yougot confused that I am taking a class in la. Which means you thought I didn't live in la. Look one thing I
can't stand is lies. Who did you think I was? Feb 9, 2012 10:16:41 AM
+1-310-866-3049 Huh??? Calm down!
Your not a victim!
There is a THE CLASS in Arizona... That's all. Figured I had the wrong site. OMG!! Feb 9, 2012 10:19:34 AM
Me "2pm on sat it is!
The link you passed doesn't work. (I see THE CLASS on FB but it's in LA.) You got their number instead?" Feb 9, 2012 10:20:13 AM
Me Funny how 2pm is suddenly problematic when you realize I am in la. And I am calm. You clearly have the wrong idea about me. Hope you find the person you actually meant to text Feb 9, 2012 10:21:24 AM
(To which he proceeds to call me while I am in mid text and leaves an angry voicemail where he calls me immature and tells me to call if I am "grown up." His tone is so threatening that I just deleted it midway, although I guess I should have saved it)
+1-310-866-3049 Listen to my voicemail
And grow up Feb 9, 2012 10:23:10 AM
Me "2pm on sat it is!
The link you passed doesn't work. (I see THE CLASS on FB but it's in LA.) You got their number instead?" Feb 9, 2012 10:24:34 AM
Me Reread the text you wrote Feb 9, 2012 10:27:48 AM
+1-310-866-3049 You need some therapy?
You went through some trauma?
Really sorry you have issues being cancelled on.
Your behavior is psycho! Feb 9, 2012 10:28:17 AM
Me Again this is the text you wrote. Please read it " 2pm on sat it is!
The link you passed doesn't work. (I see THE CLASS on FB but it's in LA.) You got their number instead? " then you say that sat no longer works when 10 min prior you said see you sat. also I realize you seem to have a thing for belittling people and for some reason you think I enjoy that. The reality is that I don't and the volitile one is you and you are projecting onto me. I am not an angry person and I do not hang around people who think I have trauma or
tell me I need therapy or call me a psycho. If you truly think that is how you gain a person's respect you are the one who needs to go into therapy. All you are doing by lashing out at me is making me thank god that I never hung out with you. My friends may not be perfect but they don't go around calling people psycho, and if they did, and I still hung out with them, then id be subjecting myself to abuse, and regardless of the idea you clearly have made up of me, I am not the
type of person that tolerates that. Feb 9, 2012 10:33:41 AM
+1-310-866-3049 You won't call me.
And choose to hide behind texts like a coward.
Call me or delete me.
But stop texting. Thanks Feb 9, 2012 10:35:56 AM
Me I don't call you because idont feel like being yelled at and wrongly accused of stuff. Your voicemail was incredibly angry and abusive and no sane person would call a stranger who is treating them like that. It is clear you just want to argue and I don't need that kind of negativity. I suggest if you are angry at the "immaturity" in the world you set the example. Be the change you want to be. Treat others as you would like to be treated. Afterall you are way too old to
be calling people names. Notice how I don't resort to name calling yet I am at least a decade younger than you. Feb 9, 2012 10:38:49 AM
+1-310-866-3049 But You act like 2 decades younger than me. Lol Speaking of liars. Your first text this time around said:"you didn't know who this was" but you Absolutely did. Why did you lie?? Maybe u should look in the mirror? Feb 9, 2012 10:40:31 AM
Me I didn't and I figured it out right away when I looked in the text history. its impossible that I am acting two decades younger when you are acting like a 13 year old. You want to prove that you are not a liar? How about explaining why sat didn't work anymore when you realized I was in la. Or how about explaining why you texted me " 2pm on sat it is!
The link you passed doesn't work. (I see THE CLASS on FB but it's in LA.) You got their number instead? " Feb 9, 2012 10:41:52 AM
+1-310-866-3049 "A sane person wouldn't call me?" Lol
Yet sending me a million texts when i asked you to stop is more sane??
Wow! Stop! You are psycho! Feb 9, 2012 10:43:24 AM
Me Wow if you are this volatile in your personal life I can't imagine how you are on set Feb 9, 2012 10:44:12 AM
+1-310-866-3049 I'm calm dear. And busy working.
Your texts are hostile. And you may have obsessive-compulsive disorder. Look into it Feb 9, 2012 10:46:11 AM
Me Saying something doesn't make it true. And if you were busy working you wouldn't have time to talk on the phone. Texting would be more convenient. Look I have been kind enough to answer all your questions yet you refuse to answer mine. Feb 9, 2012 10:47:40 AM
+1-310-866-3049 Stop assuming!
Taking would have been faster than all these texts.
You don't run my life So stop trying to control things and making demands. Ok? It's obnoxious.
Call me if you have the courage... Feb 9, 2012 10:50:19 AM
Me I'm 25 and a technophile. Texting is faster for me and I don't respond well to teasing and threats. I have not made a single demand. You are the one demanding me to call you. Feb 9, 2012 10:51:15 AM
+1-310-866-3049 I requested you call.
Not demanded.
Your view on the world is warped. Feb 9, 2012 10:53:24 AM
Me And I asked what the story behind the canceling and being confused about my location was. And going as far as saying "call if you dare" is incredibly immature and not something that works on me. Not sure what type of daddy issue girls you are accustomed to Feb 9, 2012 10:54:42 AM
+1-310-866-3049 You didn't answer my call. But You could have.
You want to keep things in conflict.
I don't That's why we don't get along. Bye Feb 9, 2012 10:56:15 AM
Me My reception is horrible even if I had answered it would have cut out in a minute. You'd think someone who claims to remember who I am would remember thatb Feb 9, 2012 10:57:00 AM
+1-310-866-3049 U got a google number
What is it? Feb 9, 2012 10:57:52 AM
Me Seriously?
From the person who scolded me for not having saved his number. Look
just leave me alone. My curiosity and wanting to find out who you
thought yuou were talking to let this drag on for way too long but its
clear you're not gonna tell me so just give it up. Bye. Feb 9, 2012 10:59:17 AM
+1-310-866-3049 You call that Curiosity?? Lol no way. You love conflict
And drama.
Bye bye Feb 9, 2012 11:03:29 AM
Me Yes wanting an explanation as to why you thought I wasn't taking a class in la is curiosity. Any normal person would be confused by that tex.